Improve your Relationship Intelligence (RQ) by benefitting from Dr. Andrea & Jonathan’s combined 60 YEARS of experience working in relationship education.

You’re doing the same thing over and over again… while expecting different results…

Conflicts are inevitable. 


Whether at home or at work, you often find yourself caught up in conflicts.

 

Over time they create a lack of trust, which in turn creates more conflict and uncertainty. 


You can’t seem to figure out how to effectively communicate your thoughts and feelings in a productive way.

 
Something is not right. And you know it. 


You’re tired of feeling misunderstood. 


And without even realizing it, you’ve been wanting to fix your relationship issues for quite some time. 


But as you already know… 


Relationships are... far from easy to manage. 


Whether it's a romantic relationship, a work relationship or even the one you have with your family members - It can be hard work and emotionally draining sometimes. 


In most cases, it takes years to fully understand the other person and develop the healthy habits needed to succeed. 


And even after all of these years, no one fully knows their partner 100%. 


In most cases, you don’t even fully understand yourself. 


That’s why you simply do not have either the time or the energy to learn all the behaviours and habits for success just from your own experience. 


All of it while being stressed at work, having deadlines, appointments, meetings and even personal issues. 


Many think they can… but they realize their mistake when it’s already too late. 


They default to the unhelpful “trial and error” method… just hoping to fix the situation somehow. 


Ignoring the issues for as long as they can… 


Acting like they don’t exist…

 
Even making compromises they despise… 


And they won’t even know if their relationship is going to work anyway. 



All of this could be done in a much faster way.

 

And without even needing to attend a couple therapy session. 


While being proven highly effective and simple to understand. 


And by using a combined 60 YEARS of experience in relationship management to help numerous individuals radically improve their relationships at home and at work. 


Individuals who were once just like you - Stuck in the uncertainty of hope and desperation. 


Feeling you need to choose between them and yourself. 


You don’t have to choose. 


But you definitely have to change your approach.

 
By now, you’ve hopefully realized that you won’t be able to get any different results by acting the same way. 


You need to deepen your skills and change your behaviour to get a different result.


And you can do that in just a few hours through an effective, plug & play system. 


A system that takes the necessary habits needed to craft the peaceful, prospering relationship you want, and puts them into simple principles and practical actions. 


A system that uses an understanding of "emotional bank accounts" to help you develop the essential skills that all successful relationships depend on. 


A system that will allow you to : 




Why would you need a “system” to run your relationships, you might ask?


  •  Your emotional state depends on it.


  •  Your mental health depends on it. 


  • The quality of your life depends on it.

  •  And because you don’t have any much more of your valuable time to waste.

  • And neither do the ones you care about.


How does it work?


The 4 Habits Self Teach Course is a step-by-step, 6 module process that has already helped countless individuals just like you to overcome struggles and strengthen their relationships.


It starts with an understanding of how some of the things you do negatively impact other people's "Emotional Bank Accounts" and then helps you develop tools for success and practical ways to come across better, based on the simple to understand 4 Habits framework - drawing on a combined 60 years of experience in relationship management.


You’ll learn life-changing skills that can be applied to all types of relationships, including those at home, at work, and in life.


What you’ll gain from finishing our course :



You'll get all of this, condensed into a unique, self-paced six module system consisting of short videos, reflection questions, and exercises. 


Each module takes about 30-45 minutes to complete. 





What people are saying...

5 star rating

A superb course that's a must for all

B B

This is a fantastic course delivered in a very professional and enjoyable manner. The helpful format of bite sized videos, once attuned to, allows for easy ...

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This is a fantastic course delivered in a very professional and enjoyable manner. The helpful format of bite sized videos, once attuned to, allows for easy recaps of specific topics. The follow up quizzes and links are a great and helpful addition. To my mind, this is a well thought out course put together for today's fast paced life. I would be quite surprised if there were any regrets in the time invested going through the course...for me it was time well spent.

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5 star rating

Brilliant and engaging

J S

This course not only equips you with key principles for improving communication but also invites you to engage with its interactive videos and Q&A. This ...

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This course not only equips you with key principles for improving communication but also invites you to engage with its interactive videos and Q&A. This course is a must for everyone, whether you feel you are a good communicator or not!

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5 star rating

Very practical... brought things to life that are often t...

N O

I chose this course because it’s the ‘Golden Thread’ that binds relationships. If you get communication right other things fall into place. I must admit I wa...

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I chose this course because it’s the ‘Golden Thread’ that binds relationships. If you get communication right other things fall into place. I must admit I was a bit reluctant to sign up to this course because I thought it’s just another relationship course. However, the moment I started listening to it I kept playing back the videos as it was so interesting and I took my time as I didn’t want the course to finish. I like the way the course was presented in a bite size chunk yet you can see how the Thread connects. The short clips is very practical, it brought to life things that are often taken for granted in a relationship. I need to now put some of what I’ve learned into practice. Well set up and clearly presented. Highly recommend I’ve sent the link to my husband straight away. N O

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5 star rating

brilliant

A W

so practical; and helpful in building awareness and the skills to communicate effectively.

so practical; and helpful in building awareness and the skills to communicate effectively.

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Excellent - 5/5

G H

The course was well researched. It makes you stop and think how we communicate to our partners. It makes you think about what others want from life. You can...

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The course was well researched. It makes you stop and think how we communicate to our partners. It makes you think about what others want from life. You cannot change a person but try and understand why communication is the key to all relationships. Excellent course for those seeking change and a better understanding of our partners.

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5 star rating

Great course

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This course was very inspiring especially after having a baby....it has seemed natural that I have forgotten my best friend...my husband. I have learnt ag...

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This course was very inspiring especially after having a baby....it has seemed natural that I have forgotten my best friend...my husband. I have learnt again how to respect him, in ways that don't necessarily mean cooking and cleaning as we once cuturally believed. He too likewise now understands the importance of me his wife within the home. I hope this course has sparkled our love and relationship as husband and wife and pray that this effect is experienced by many others as relationships within todays society is not easy.

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5 star rating

Very insightful

G O

The scary thing for me was finding out how I've got this wrong for almost 10 years now. Unintentionally I can see how I've been disrespectful and dishonoured...

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The scary thing for me was finding out how I've got this wrong for almost 10 years now. Unintentionally I can see how I've been disrespectful and dishonoured the person I've claimed to love and respect all these years. Every bit of the course is purposeful - no fluff.

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5 star rating

Wow! So much that I didn't know...

J T

Really helpful course. I have learned so much in such a short space of time... and all in really practical ways. My wife has already got a smile on her face....

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Really helpful course. I have learned so much in such a short space of time... and all in really practical ways. My wife has already got a smile on her face. And so do I! I couldn't recommend this course more highly. Thank you so much Andrea and Jon!

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I wish I was doing this with my wife!

D C

This section is amazing, I believe my wife would benefit and listen to this, but with where she is at the moment I'm struggling to get through her clenched f...

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This section is amazing, I believe my wife would benefit and listen to this, but with where she is at the moment I'm struggling to get through her clenched fist.

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5 star rating

SO POWERFUL!

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This couple just got me in time. Their principles are simple but SO POWERFUL! I keep asking myself, why didn’t I think of that?

This couple just got me in time. Their principles are simple but SO POWERFUL! I keep asking myself, why didn’t I think of that?

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5 star rating

Really excellent course!

J T

Thank you so much for all the learning in this course. We have already started noticing changed behaviours in our relationship in such a short space of time....

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Thank you so much for all the learning in this course. We have already started noticing changed behaviours in our relationship in such a short space of time. I am looking forward to the next course already. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

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FAQ

  • Should I take this course even if I’m currently not in a relationship?

    Absolutely! It’s actually even more recommended to do so. The lessons inside our 4 Habits Self Teach Course are crucial for developing and nurturing ALL kinds of relationships. It’s essential to approach all of your relationships with this knowledge if you want to succeed, whether in your personal or professional life.

  • How long is the course? Is it complicated?

    Each module takes from 30 minutes to an hour to get through; it depends on how you desire to finish the course. As for its difficulty, the course is structured in a clear, concise 6 module setup designed to be used as an interactive”self learn” programme. At the end of each section you’ll find a set of reflection questions and short exercises to help embed the learning.

  • Can this course help me improve my relationship with my children or other family members?

    Yes! The course is focused on expanding the horizons for all the types of relationships you have in your life. Your family members will definitely see a big impact on your day to day behavior after taking the course.

  • Can the course be accessed on mobile devices?

    Sure! You can access the platform from your phone or tablet, you’re not limited to your personal computer.

  • Will I have access to the course material after it’s complete?

    Yes! As long as you remember your password, you’ll have access to the course forever.

  • Is the course suitable for couples who are experiencing significant relationship issues or considering separation/divorce?

    Yes, the course is more than suitable for couples who find themselves in this situation. It’ll be part of the main reasons why your relationship will start flourishing.

  • How does the course address cultural differences and diversity in relationships?

    The course is designed to address cultural differences and diversity in relationships by providing a comprehensive understanding of the various cultural backgrounds that exist in the world. By promoting cultural awareness and sensitivity, the course aims to foster an inclusive and respectful environment that values diversity in all its forms.

Course curriculum

  • 1

    Welcome to The 4 Habits Online Course

    • A message from your Course Presenters

  • 2

    1) How can I manage my relationships better?

  • 3

    2) Habit #1: BE CURIOUS, not critical - Learning to manage expectations (yours and others)

    • 2.a) Module Overview

      FREE PREVIEW
    • 2.b) Understanding why we get frustrated and how we leave each other feeling

    • 2.c) How can I become more Curious than critical, in practice?

    • 2.d) TIME for change

  • 4

    3) Habit #2: BE CAREFUL, not crushing - Getting better at handling conflict

  • 5

    4) Habit #3: ASK, don’t assume - Creating healthy boundaries around what matters most

    • 4.a) Module Overview

      FREE PREVIEW
    • 4.b) Understanding core values and assumptions

    • 4.c) Three BIG ASKs for building trust and respect

    • 4.d) TIME for change – What matters most?

  • 6

    5) Habit #4: CONNECT, before you correct - Getting better at showing you care

  • 7

    6) Taking Action - Bringing The 4 Habits to life...

    • 6.a) Module Overview

      FREE PREVIEW
    • 6.b) Taking Responsibility for Your Relationships

    • 6.c) Becoming intentional by building 'Will' & 'Skill'

    • 6.d) Time for Change

    • 6.e) Before you go...

    • 6.f) Well done & Thank you!

Your Instructors

Your Co-Presenters

Dr. Andrea & Jonathan Taylor-Cummings

Andrea and Jon are the co-Founders and Co-CEOs of 4 Habits Consulting and Founding Trustees of the UK registered charity, Soulmates Academy Foundation.

Being city professionals and entrepreneurs themselves, Andrea and Jon have first-hand experience of the inevitable strain on relationships caused by high stress careers, living and working together, and juggling the responsibilities of family and work in an attempt to find a sustainable balance. The 4 Habits are a culmination of their work in relationship education over 25+ years, drawing from principles in psychology, management theory and scientific research. Initially alongside their professional city careers, and now as their full time mission, they help people change their behaviours from habits that damage relationships to habits that strengthen them, on purpose.

Andrea & Jon are recognised authorities on the subject of relationship education, with numerous public speaking engagements, multiple TV, Radio and Podcast appearances around the world, a successful TEDx talk and a book on The 4 Habits of ALL successful relationships.

In 2023 they celebrate 30 years of marriage. They have 2 grown children… who still keep them totally accountable on all the relationship advice they give!

Nothing Will Change Unless You Do.

Less stress, more energy and better relationships are literally within your reach...