Course Description

Over the last 25+ years, working with countless couples, we’ve observed that ALL successful relationships exhibit 4 habits. On the flip side, every failing relationship we’ve ever seen, lacks one or more of them.

In Mar 2019, we had the privilege of sharing The 4 Habits in a TEDx talk... where we spoke about the importance of developing these habits on purpose to improve #RelationalIntelligence.  Today, the talk now has over 1.75 million views and climbing!

Following the talk, we bundled together this course to make it easy for you to access ALL of the 5-Star rated 4 Habits modules in one place!

Begin your journey to mastering the 4 habits here.

Take this programme to learn:

  1. HOW you can take control of your relationships.
  2. WHY your key relationships currently feel the way they do and what you can do to improve them.
  3. WHAT the habits mean in practice and HOW TO not only develop, but master them.


It's not about being perfect on day one, but it is about being intentional in developing the habits.

What you can expect:

This course has been structured to help you go through the content and master each of The 4 habits at a measured pace.

Each week you will get access to between 1.5 - 2.5 hours worth of teaching, spread over a 5-week period. If that pace is too fast for you, don't worry - you have a full 12 months to go through the material!

The teaching includes videos, quizzes and exercises.

Go through together with your partner, or on your own. The course comes with two logins, in case you prefer/need to go through separately.

Next Steps:
Get started with this programme today and begin your journey to mastering the 4 habits.  Habits that will transform all your relationships for the better, forever.

Looking forward to joining you on this journey to better relationships...


Andrea & Jon


Your Co-Instructors

Dr. Andrea & Jon Taylor-Cummings

Andrea and Jon are the founders of 4 Habits Consulting and the UK registered charity, Soulmates Academy Foundation. As relationship education specialists, they bring over 25 years’ experience of working with corporates, communities, couples and individuals.

Through a series of seminars, webinars, workshops and online courses, they help people improve emotional health, wellbeing and productivity by developing their Relational Intelligence so they learn to do relationships well.

Being city professionals and entrepreneurs themselves, Andrea and Jon have first-hand experience of the inevitable strain on relationships caused by high stress careers, living and working together, and juggling the responsibilities of family and work in an attempt to find a sustainable balance. Based on four fundamental habits that distinguish between successful and unsuccessful relationships, they equip people to take personal responsibility for changing behaviours from habits that damage relationships to habits that strengthen them on purpose - at work, at home and in life.

Andrea & Jon are recognised authorities on the subject of relationship education, with numerous public speaking engagements, several TV and Radio appearances in the UK, a successful TEDx talk and a recently released book on The 4 Habits of ALL successful relationships.

They have been married since 1993 and have 2 teenage children… who keep them totally accountable on all the relationship advice they give!

Course curriculum

  • 1

    Welcome to the course!

    • How to get the best out of this course

    • Before we begin...

    • Partners GO FREE - Send us details here for separate login, if required

  • 2

    Understanding the key to taking control of your relationships

    • Understanding the key to taking control of your relationships

    • Understanding how Emotional Bank Accounts (EBAs) work

    • What can happen when we get it wrong

    • Test your learning

  • 3

    Making sense of how your relationships currently 'feel'

    • Making sense of how your relationships currently "feel"

    • Test your learning

  • 4

    Habit #1 - BE CURIOUS, not critical

    • WHY habit #1 is vital for minimising withdrawals from Emotional Bank Accounts

    • HOW to build Habit #1 (Course Link)

  • 5

    Habit #2 - BE CAREFUL, not crushing

    • WHY habit #2 is also vital for minimising withdrawals from Emotional Bank Accounts

    • Part 1 - Understanding & Minimising Conflict (Course Link)

    • Part 2 - Managing Conflict Effectively (Course Link)

  • 6

    Habit #3 - ASK, don't assume

    • WHY habit #3 is vital for maximising deposits into Emotional Bank Accounts

    • HOW to build Habit #3 - Re-Establishing Trust & Respect (Course Link)

  • 7

    Habit #4 - CONNECT, before you correct

    • WHY habit #4 is also vital for maximising deposits into Emotional Bank Accounts

    • How to build Habit #4 - Improving Communication (Course Link)

  • 8

    Next steps

    • Before you go...

Reviews

5 star rating

Wow! So much that I didn't know...

J T

Really helpful course. I have learned so much in such a short space of time... and all in really practical ways. My wife has already got a smile on her face....

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Really helpful course. I have learned so much in such a short space of time... and all in really practical ways. My wife has already got a smile on her face. And so do I! I couldn't recommend this course more highly. Thank you so much Andrea and Jon!

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5 star rating

I wish I was doing this with my wife!

D C

This section is amazing, I believe my wife would benefit and listen to this, but with where she is at the moment I'm struggling to get through her clenched f...

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This section is amazing, I believe my wife would benefit and listen to this, but with where she is at the moment I'm struggling to get through her clenched fist.

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5 star rating

SO POWERFUL!

v a

This couple just got me in time. Their principles are simple but SO POWERFUL! I keep asking myself, why didn’t I think of that?

This couple just got me in time. Their principles are simple but SO POWERFUL! I keep asking myself, why didn’t I think of that?

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Get the bundle here

This special bundle brings together all the 4 habits into one course for you.