The ability to do relationships well is key to success - at work, at home, and in life.

Most of us want great relationships, but have developed poor relational habits.

We do things that land badly, and unintentionally damage our relationships - but we have no idea of either what we’re doing wrong, or what we could be doing differently to improve things.
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Success starts with improving our Relational Intelligence - our RQ

"Relationship Success Accelerator" focuses on helping you improve your RQ

That way, you can better manage situations, have better conversations, and achieve better outcomes... even if the majority of the fault lies with them!
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Our Proven Six-Step Process:

This Self-Teach Online Course will help you change behaviours around six key relational areas for strengthening relationships and minimizing misunderstandings and conflict.

a. Understand Emotions – and learn to manage how your behaviour impacts others
b. Respect Differences – play to each other’s strengths and develop healthier expectations of others
c. Manage Conflict – and genuinely resolve issues without toxic behaviours that damage relationships
d. Unpack Assumptions – around culture, roles, responsibilities etc. to build mutual trust and respect
e. Clarify Priorities – and shared values and goals, to work more effectively as a team, at work or at home
f. Communicate Appreciation – build warmth, rapport and discretionary effort through showing value and appreciation in ways that are meaningful to others.

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THE TOOL EVERYONE NEEDS

R M

I am so thankful to Jon and Andrea for this well thought course. I did two of them, one with my husband and the other with my family that we happen to work w...

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I am so thankful to Jon and Andrea for this well thought course. I did two of them, one with my husband and the other with my family that we happen to work with. This course has helped my husband and I a GREAT deal well in the beginning of our marriage and the results of it are visible today. We understand each other better now and the good thing about this course is, YOU do the work. The course equipped us with tools we needed and will always need for as long as we relate with people. We're now more aware of how our actions land with the other person, what to do in order to make emotional deposits and how to be better people. I would recommend this to everyone, workplaces, romantic relationships, family relations. If you're a human being who relates with other human beings then you DEFINITELY need this course. You will benefit a lot and so will the people around you.

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A good way to make conversations happen

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Very powerful!

J T

Thoroughly enjoyed going through this course and learning in bite-sized chunks how to improve my relationships. Highly recommend it to anyone!

Thoroughly enjoyed going through this course and learning in bite-sized chunks how to improve my relationships. Highly recommend it to anyone!

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Course curriculum

    1. Welcome! Start your journey here... (10 mins)

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    2. ASSIGNMENT - Clarifying what you want out of this... (20 mins)

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    3. What's your starting point? (5 mins)

    4. A message about this course from your lead Coaches & Course Hosts... (2 mins)

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    5. IMPORTANT: How we handle your Personal Information... (2 mins)

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    6. IMPORTANT: Counselling Services for Additional Support

    1. 1.a) LEARN - Module Overview (5 mins)

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    2. 1.b) LEARN and DO - Making sense of what's been going wrong (16.33 mins)

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    3. 1.c) DO - Check Your Understanding (5 mins)

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    4. 1.d) LEARN and DO - The Success Formula for relationships (45 mins)

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    5. ASSIGNMENT - EBA: Withdrawals and Deposits Exercise (15 mins)

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    6. 1.e) LEARN - TIME for change (15 mins)

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    7. ASSIGNMENT - Start/ Stop/ Continue/ Change? (15 mins)

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    8. ASSIGNMENT - Book Your Personal Coaching Call

    1. 2.a) LEARN - Module Overview (5 mins)

    2. 2.b) LEARN and DO - Understanding why we get frustrated and how we leave each other feeling (16 mins)

    3. 2.c) LEARN and DO - How can I become more Curious than critical, in practice? (16 mins)

    4. 2.d) ASSIGNMENT - Complete LOGB Personality Profile (15 mins)

    5. 2.e) DO - Check your understanding (5 mins)

    6. 2.f) LEARN and DO - Time for change (22 mins)

    7. 2.g) ASSIGNMENT - Start/ Stop/ Continue/ Change? (15 mins)

    8. IMPORTANT: Counselling Services for Additional Support

    1. 3.a) LEARN - Module Overview (5 mins)

    2. 3.b) LEARN and DO - Understanding why conflict is inevitable (20 mins)

    3. 3.c) LEARN - Understanding conflict and learning to manage it well (11 mins)

    4. 3.d) DO - Check your understanding (5 mins)

    5. 3.e) DO - Time for Reflection & Exercises (45 mins)

    6. 3.f) ASSIGNMENT - Ground Rules as a Couple (15 mins)

    7. 3.g) ASSIGNMENT - Developing your Anger Management Strategy (10 mins)

    8. 3.h) LEARN and DO - Time for change (11 mins)

    9. 3.i) ASSIGNMENT - "The ME I'd like to be in conflict" Exercise (15 mins)

    10. 3.j) ASSIGNMENT - Start/ Stop/ Continue/ Change? (10 mins)

    11. 3.k) ASSIGNMENT - Book your Personal Coaching Call

    1. 4.a) LEARN - Module Overview (5 mins)

    2. 4.b) LEARN - Understanding core values and assumptions (11 mins)

    3. 4.c) DO - Time for Reflection - Core Values and Assumptions (15 mins)

    4. 4.d) DO - Time for Reflection - Core Values and Assumptions Continued (5 mins)

    5. 4.e) LEARN and DO - Three BIG ASKs for building trust and respect (22 mins)

    6. 4.f) LEARN - How To Have Courageous Conversations Successfully (15 mins)

    7. 4.g) ASSIGNMENT - Book Your Personal Coaching Call

    1. 5.a) LEARN - Module Overview (5 mins)

    2. 5.b) LEARN and DO - What matters most? (45 mins)

    3. 5.c) LEARN - How can I create Peace, Harmony and Balance in Practice? (20 mins)

    4. 5.d) LEARN and DO - How can I develop a schedule template for my own ideal week? (10 mins)

    5. 5.e) ASSIGNMENT - Design Your Ideal Schedule Template (30 mins)

    6. 5.k) ASSIGNMENT - Start/ Stop/ Continue/ Change? (10 mins)

    7. IMPORTANT: Counselling Services for Additional Support

About this course

  • £975.00
  • 62 lessons
  • 2.5 hours of video content

Your Course Hosts

Your Co-Presenters Dr. Andrea & Jonathan Taylor-Cummings

Andrea and Jon are the co-Founders and Co-CEOs of 4 Habits Consulting and Founding Trustees of the UK registered charity, Soulmates Academy Foundation.

Being city professionals and entrepreneurs themselves, Andrea and Jon have first-hand experience of the inevitable strain on relationships caused by high stress careers, living and working together, and juggling the responsibilities of family and work in an attempt to find a sustainable balance. The 4 Habits are a culmination of their work in relationship education over 25+ years, drawing from principles in psychology, management theory and scientific research. Initially alongside their professional city careers, and now as their full time mission, they help people change their behaviours from habits that damage relationships to habits that strengthen them, on purpose.

Andrea & Jon are recognised authorities on the subject of relationship education, with numerous public speaking engagements, multiple TV, Radio and Podcast appearances around the world, a successful TEDx Talk (3M+ Views) and a book on The 4 Habits of ALL successful relationships.

In April 2023 they celebrated 30 years of marriage. They have 2 grown children… who still keep them totally accountable on all the relationship advice they give!