Habit #3 - ASK, don't assume
(Re-)Establishing Trust & Respect
Course Description
Someone once said “Respect and loyalty are not upgrades in a relationship – they’re a requirement”. In our modern age though, as we move towards more equality between the genders, there is still some legacy thinking and confusion around trust and respect in an intimate relationship, especially around roles and responsibilities in the home. Add to that the current thinking that monogamy means “loyalty to one partner… at a time”, and "infidelity is only infidelity if you get caught", it’s no wonder that relationships are under threat.
The reality is that Trust & Respect form the bedrock of relationships - present in every successful relationship and almost always missing in every breakdown.
This course helps couples understand the issues at play and (re-)build foundations of a healthy, happy relationship by addressing and overcoming any feelings of lack of equality, being undervalued, or being taken for granted that can easily creep in where Trust & Respect are misunderstood or absent.
Take this course to understand:
- Modern interpretations of Respect, HOW & WHY it’s so easy to get it wrong and WHAT we should all be aiming for.
- 6 compelling reasons WHY we all need to get it right in our relationships.
- 5 practical HOWs to focus on, to make Trust & Respect a reality in your relationship.
Your Co-Presenters Dr. Andrea & Jonathan Taylor-Cummings
Dr. Andrea & Jonathan Taylor-Cummings are internationally recognized authorities on Strengthening Relationships to Unlock High Performance and Drive Outstanding Results in teams, organizations, communities, and families. Drawing on 30+ years of professional experience and extensive research, their pioneering frameworks—including The 4 Habits of ALL Successful Relationships—equip leaders and teams to foster relational intelligence and create cultures of trust, inclusion, and psychological safety.
Their TEDx talk, which has garnered over 3.5 million views globally, and their highly acclaimed book, have established them as thought leaders in building high-performing teams through intentional behaviour change. As founders of The 4 Habits Institute and the UK charity Achord, Jon and Andrea champion a proactive approach to replacing relationship-damaging habits with those that strengthen connections and enhance collaboration.
With their engaging style, practical insights, and lived experiences navigating high-pressure careers, Jon and Andrea deliver transformative workshops and keynote addresses that resonate across boardrooms, communities, and homes. Their work is a roadmap for those looking to create thriving relationships and drive exceptional outcomes in today’s diverse, hybrid, and high-stress environments.
Their TEDx talk, which has garnered over 3.5 million views globally, and their highly acclaimed book, have established them as thought leaders in building high-performing teams through intentional behaviour change. As founders of The 4 Habits Institute and the UK charity Achord, Jon and Andrea champion a proactive approach to replacing relationship-damaging habits with those that strengthen connections and enhance collaboration.
With their engaging style, practical insights, and lived experiences navigating high-pressure careers, Jon and Andrea deliver transformative workshops and keynote addresses that resonate across boardrooms, communities, and homes. Their work is a roadmap for those looking to create thriving relationships and drive exceptional outcomes in today’s diverse, hybrid, and high-stress environments.
Course curriculum
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Welcome
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...a bit of housekeeping!
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Partners GO FREE - Send us details here for separate login, if required
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Getting in the right Mindset
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Test Your Awareness Quiz
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Intro
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The Changing Context
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Dishonouring Habits
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The Principle
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High Perceived Value
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Communicated & Conferred Value
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The 'Feeling' to communicate
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Intro
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#1 - Better Self-Worth
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#2 - Better Teamwork
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#3 - Better Balance & Quality of Life
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#4 - Better Intimacy
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#5 - Better Sex!
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#6 - Better Partnerships
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Chapter Summary
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Intro
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A) RECOGNISE differences
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B) ACCEPT differences
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C) VALUE differences
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D) TRUST different approaches
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E) DON'T TRUST your feelings
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Wisdom from the Younger Generation...
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Chapter Quiz
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Exercises Overview
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Exercise 1- Step Up
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Exercise 2 - Valuing Differences
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About this course
- £49.00
- 35 lessons
- 1 hour of video content
Reviews
Great course
s F
This course was very inspiring especially after having a baby....it has seemed natural that I have forgotten my best friend...my husband. I have learnt ag...
Read MoreThis course was very inspiring especially after having a baby....it has seemed natural that I have forgotten my best friend...my husband. I have learnt again how to respect him, in ways that don't necessarily mean cooking and cleaning as we once cuturally believed. He too likewise now understands the importance of me his wife within the home. I hope this course has sparkled our love and relationship as husband and wife and pray that this effect is experienced by many others as relationships within todays society is not easy.
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R F
What i took from this experience is that i used to over look the small things in my relationship that always stem to bigger challenges. Taking this course ha...
Read MoreWhat i took from this experience is that i used to over look the small things in my relationship that always stem to bigger challenges. Taking this course has helped me and my wife realise where we are falling off track at times. Things are not still at its best now but its a lot better after taking this short course. Thanks for the support guys.
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This course was so useful . I found it really good and helpful . Will go back to it when I need . I totally recommend
This course was so useful . I found it really good and helpful . Will go back to it when I need . I totally recommend
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Going through the course has really helped me understand this very important attribute of marriage better . I was amazed to discover what it really means to...
Read MoreGoing through the course has really helped me understand this very important attribute of marriage better . I was amazed to discover what it really means to honour and respect and how i got it wrong thinking i knew what it meant and also what it meant to me! I cannot recommend this course enough because it has really helped me and I'm sure it will help many others. Very graciously and intelligently delivered!
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Contents: Well researched. During the course I realised how little I knew and how I could improve my knowledge in Re- Establishing Honour and respect. I was ...
Read MoreContents: Well researched. During the course I realised how little I knew and how I could improve my knowledge in Re- Establishing Honour and respect. I was better informed at the end of the course. Well done Andrea and John.
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G O
The scary thing for me was finding out how I've got this wrong for almost 10 years now. Unintentionally I can see how I've been disrespectful and dishonoured...
Read MoreThe scary thing for me was finding out how I've got this wrong for almost 10 years now. Unintentionally I can see how I've been disrespectful and dishonoured the person I've claimed to love and respect all these years. Every bit of the course is purposeful - no fluff.
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