Course Description

Someone once said “Respect and loyalty are not upgrades in a relationship – they’re a requirement”.  In our modern age though, as we move towards more equality between the genders, there is still some legacy thinking and confusion around trust and respect in an intimate relationship, especially around roles and responsibilities in the home.  Add to that the current thinking that monogamy means “loyalty to one partner… at a time”, and "infidelity is only infidelity if you get caught", it’s no wonder that relationships are under threat.

The reality is that Trust & Respect form the bedrock of relationships - present in every successful relationship and almost always missing in every breakdown. 

This course helps couples understand the issues at play and (re-)build foundations of a healthy, happy relationship by addressing and overcoming any feelings of lack of equality, being undervalued, or being taken for granted that can easily creep in where Trust & Respect are misunderstood or absent.


Take this course to understand:

  • Modern interpretations of Respect, HOW & WHY it’s so easy to get it wrong and WHAT we should all be aiming for.
  • 6 compelling reasons WHY we all need to get it right in our relationships.
  • 5 practical HOWs to focus on, to make Trust & Respect a reality in your relationship.



Co-Founders

Dr. Andrea & Jon Taylor-Cummings

Dr Andrea & Jon Taylor-Cummings have been married since 1993 and together share a passion for helping people build strong, mutually satisfying relationships.

They have been running Relational Intelligence seminar and workshops in various live and online formats for the last 25 plus yrs. Based on personal experiences from their own marriage and observations from working in high-performance professional services environments, they recognised the urgent need to support marriages and other long-term relationships in the corporate world, particularly in environments where high stress, long work hours and extended time apart puts a unique set of pressures on relationships.

In 2019, they had the opportunity of delivering a TEDx talk through which they distilled their experience over the years into The 4 Habits of ALL Successful Relationships. Today the message is resonating strongly with over 1.75 million views and still climbing daily!

Their vision is to help everyone build better relationships – at home, at work and in life – and to do so on purpose rather than waiting until things break down before looking for help.

Andrea & Jon live in London, England and have 2 teenage children… who keep them totally accountable on all the relationship advice they give!

Course curriculum

  • 1

    Introduction

    • Welcome

    • ...a bit of housekeeping!

    • Partners GO FREE - Send us details here for separate login, if required

    • Getting in the right Mindset

  • 2

    1 - HOW & WHY we sometimes get it wrong

  • 3

    2 - WHAT they should look like for a Healthy Relationship

  • 4

    3 - WHY it's important to get it right - 6 Reasons

    • Intro

      FREE PREVIEW
    • #1 - Better Self-Worth

    • #2 - Better Teamwork

    • #3 - Better Balance & Quality of Life

    • #4 - Better Intimacy

    • #5 - Better Sex!

    • #6 - Better Partnerships

    • Chapter Summary

  • 5

    4 - HOW to (Re-)Establish them in your relationship

    • Intro

      FREE PREVIEW
    • A) RECOGNISE differences

    • B) ACCEPT differences

    • C) VALUE differences

    • D) TRUST different approaches

    • E) DON'T TRUST your feelings

    • Wisdom from the Younger Generation...

    • Chapter Quiz

  • 6

    5 - YOUR TURN: Taking Action

    • Exercises Overview

    • Exercise 1- Step Up

    • Exercise 2 - Valuing Differences

  • 7

    Conclusion

    • Wrap Up & Next Steps

    • Sign Up Reminders

  • 8

    Appendix

    • The Changing Context - Submission: Further Thoughts from a Christian Perspective

    • Further Reading

Reviews

5 star rating

Great course

s F

This course was very inspiring especially after having a baby....it has seemed natural that I have forgotten my best friend...my husband. I have learnt ag...

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This course was very inspiring especially after having a baby....it has seemed natural that I have forgotten my best friend...my husband. I have learnt again how to respect him, in ways that don't necessarily mean cooking and cleaning as we once cuturally believed. He too likewise now understands the importance of me his wife within the home. I hope this course has sparkled our love and relationship as husband and wife and pray that this effect is experienced by many others as relationships within todays society is not easy.

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The Soulmate experience

R F

What i took from this experience is that i used to over look the small things in my relationship that always stem to bigger challenges. Taking this course ha...

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What i took from this experience is that i used to over look the small things in my relationship that always stem to bigger challenges. Taking this course has helped me and my wife realise where we are falling off track at times. Things are not still at its best now but its a lot better after taking this short course. Thanks for the support guys.

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Amazing course

e o

This course was so useful . I found it really good and helpful . Will go back to it when I need . I totally recommend

This course was so useful . I found it really good and helpful . Will go back to it when I need . I totally recommend

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Eye opener

I O

Going through the course has really helped me understand this very important attribute of marriage better . I was amazed to discover what it really means to...

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Going through the course has really helped me understand this very important attribute of marriage better . I was amazed to discover what it really means to honour and respect and how i got it wrong thinking i knew what it meant and also what it meant to me! I cannot recommend this course enough because it has really helped me and I'm sure it will help many others. Very graciously and intelligently delivered!

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The Title is appropriate for this course

G H

Contents: Well researched. During the course I realised how little I knew and how I could improve my knowledge in Re- Establishing Honour and respect. I was ...

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Contents: Well researched. During the course I realised how little I knew and how I could improve my knowledge in Re- Establishing Honour and respect. I was better informed at the end of the course. Well done Andrea and John.

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Very insightful

G O

The scary thing for me was finding out how I've got this wrong for almost 10 years now. Unintentionally I can see how I've been disrespectful and dishonoured...

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The scary thing for me was finding out how I've got this wrong for almost 10 years now. Unintentionally I can see how I've been disrespectful and dishonoured the person I've claimed to love and respect all these years. Every bit of the course is purposeful - no fluff.

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